Ventura County Personals - Men Seeking Women

Chillin on my boat in channel island marina!!!!



If your looking for good company and to relax outdoors!!



You know where to find me!!!



6'-1", blue eyes, big shoulders,35" waist, athletic

And HUNG!!!....lol!

one-in-a-million-girl

i wanna have breakfast with you. waffles with syrup and scrambled eggs and OJ at a local cafe. or on the road. or in my kitchen where we mess around and laugh and then jump on the bed to watch a movie. i want to kiss u while u tell me about some favorite movie of yours. i wanna order the movie if i don't have it and get all excited when it arrives in the mail. i wanna feel ur cute little feet under the sheet in the morning as they look for me because they're cold, and i tickle u for half a second...ur cute little squeals and then i wrap my arms around u until you're warm.

i wanna laugh with u. take the dog for walks. talk about nothing. talk about everything. talk philosophy. watch Andy SNL shorts. find something strange or beautiful together every time we're together: an object on the sidewalk, a mind-tripping thought, a sunset, the sound of your voice.

i wanna put a motorcycle helmet on ur little head and feel ur arms tightly wrapped around me as we ride down to the beach for lunch. or not, because you tell me motorcycles are too dangerous and win me over with your cute smile and worried face. i wanna sit by the ocean, order random appetizers and i watch your eyes dance because you're happy and ur little body's filled with passion...and sometimes u try to hold back a smile, but the cute corners of your mouth give it all away so way ahead of time. i want to hold your hand and lead you to our table.

i want to hold your hand for the first time and feel my heart catch on fire, or butterflies when my hand cups the small of you back for the first time and kiss u deeply. i wanna dive-bomb ur cheek with little surprise-attack kisses when ur not looking. i wanna lean in...breath softly and put my lips gently on your neck for the first time..

i wanna get drunk with you, and on you.

i want you to let me plan a trip and just go with it. on a boat, on a plane, in a car, in the rain. i want to get seats next to each other on a plane and be the annoying couple that won't stop playing...and sometimes want to be the mature couple who finds all kinds of deep meaning in silence or conversations. i want to help you get up on a surfboard behind the boat for the first time on a lake, or give u a yell of encouragement when you get up on the wakeboard. i wanna pull over on the side of the road, on one of our road trips, because you have to pee so bad and i can laugh at how cute you are while i watch for traffic. i wanna take you rock climbing and tell you how it doesn't matter how good you are...it's just an experience. i wanna hold you from behind on a trip to catalina and get drunk on the smell of your neck and the ocean air.

i want to take you to the shooting range and put those little earmuffs on to protect your hearing. i wanna see how cute and sexy you look wearing those eye protection glasses. i wanna tell you 'good job' even if you miss the target completely because it's so rad that you were willing to even try something scary and fun.

i want you to be there when my friends and i are playing games in the pool. i wanna cry 'marco' and try to find your 'polo' in the crowd. haha. i want to push you in the pool and have you pull me in with you. i want to KISS you in the pool...your hair wet, the sound of your laughter, my strength against your softness. i wanna watch tv in the jacuzzi with u, but ignore what's on.

i want the slowwwwest sex. the kind that takes hours. a candle, air conditioning and the kind of patience that hurts. so. good. i want to taste your kisses...explore the warmth of your neck with my lips...exchange kiss for kiss from top to bottom....and i want that hard sex that can't wait. bathroom counter sex, car sex, trail of clothes throw you on the bed i want you NOW sex.

i want to hold you. i want to hold you by the beach, in public on a bench, when you're sad or scared, and when you're laughing...or crying. especially if you're crying.


i wanna kiss you slowly in a grove of giant redwoods.

i want those knowing glances across the room in public. i want to meet a bunch of characters with you and laugh at life's variety.

i wanna dress up and hit a nice restaurant we've never been to, and some we have. i wanna drive through taco bell.

i wanna be cool with you. to experience intense passions and curiosities...but also be able to just....chill. to be.

i want those speechless moments. i wanna KNOW how short life is. i want u to remind me when i forget. i want to remind u. this moment is all we have.

i want u to feel safe with me.

i want to know u have my back, and i know that i have urs. i want you to be one of those few people i can be around and completely let my guard down sometimes...to be belly-up vulnerable with you, because i trust u.

i want u to trust me, when i make moves to care for you.

i wanna share back rubs, hugs and cuddles, and i want us to be cool with space when we need to breath. we're just so cool. we're not jealous. we're not paranoid. but if someone cracks now and then, it's okay and they get hugs and kisses for it. but then it's back to cool.

i want us to be strong enough in love to feel free being completely sappy and touchy feely in public...but i want it to rest on a foundation of monster strength. our love is anything but silly. anything but spineless.

i want those silly moments. i want those rainy days and those days when ur sick and i cancel everything i can to care for u. i want to sip on capri sun juicy drinks like we're five and walk through a long-forgotten ghost town, or along a white sands beach...or a star hike away from the city lights where we can see the milky way and feel how small we are...and how hugely lucky we are

i want u to love me like chocolate cake, rocky road ice-cream, white sand beaches, winning the lottery and the first rays of sunshine.

i want you to be as real as the rising sun, and meaningful as that achingly beautiful memory that haunts your dreams

(include a photo if you decide to write, please)

Hey watz up is Juan I'm puertorican/ mexican ! I'm 20 ! I'm laid back chill trying too Look for a good gurl too settle down! Hit me up if u wanna know more . I'll send u more pics of me after this email! YES IM REAL NOT A FAKE! PLEASE BE REAL NO FAKES TIRED OF THAT!!!!!!!

NOT PICKY WITH LOOKS SO GURLS HIT ME UP

Hi, I'm Alex and I am seeking a genuine, down-to-earth woman with a great sense of humor who is looking for an emotional as well as intellectual and physical connection.

I am a 36 year old southern California native. Physically, I am 6'2", 195 lbs with brown hair and hazel green/brown eyes. Going to beaches, movies, nice restaurants, concerts, working out, weekend getaways and being active are loves of mine. I am even hoping to finally go skydiving and bungee jumping for the first time this year, and I also would love to learn to dance.

Ethnically, I am some type of caucasian mix...I have no affinity for ball sports or politics; nor do I have a political opinion or view. I don't have a "team" that I route for by any stretch of the imagination however I do enjoy going to the Staples Center to see a Lakers, Clippers or Kings game from time to time....I have been a competitive athlete and have done martial arts, gymnastics, acrobatics, swimming and diving. Also I used to be a surfer and a skateboarder. I do enjoy snowboarding, roller blading or biking at the beach, and I'm open to lots of other activities.

For work I sell ink & laser cartridges for printers, copiers and fax machines to companies with at least 100 employees. I enjoy what I do and financially I am very stable and secure.

It would be great to meet a woman who is honest, silly, consistent, caring, and intellectually curious. If you are a strong, independent, trustworthy and goal oriented woman; then I might be your guy.

It would be fantastic if you liked your job, had a place to live that you enjoyed, and are comfortable with yourself and who you are. I am a non smoker. I don't mind if you smoke or drink occasionally, not looking for anyone who has a drug habit.

I am not looking for casual sex only or to jump into any type of committed relationship just yet. (However, I am not opposed to either one if the right person magically falls from the sky and reads this ad) Lets get to know each other first and see how it goes.

Did I mention humor is a plus? :) Interested? Call or text me!! I can be reached by cell phone at area code three one zero, nine nine zero, two six seven two. I live on the beach in Ventura and work in Camarillo.

Please be over 18 and under 50. If I'm not what you're looking for thank you for taking the time to read my post and good luck in your search!

Alex

Just wondering if there is any real women out there. Not the fake crazy ones that just are not sure what they want. Preferably the older type of woman that knows what they want and go get it. Just curious if there are still any real women out there thanks. Reply with a pic and u might get mine depending if I think you are not one of the many crazy women out there. This is real so don't bother if u think its fake. And hey you are not crazy for checking this out

I am a writer from Europe, totally independent, with plenty of resources, great to talk to, and very kind. I am willing to adopt one special, vulnerable, slightly submissive female, 18 to 30, with sweet looks and good character.

Contact me if you are a bit lost in a tough world and need a compassionate man to feel safe with. I could be your coach and mentor, provide guidance, and take good care of you. You should be pretty and slender, natural and feminine, affectionate and totally loyal. I would expect you to be there for me physically and emotionally and not see any other man. And I only will see you. Everything is possible, including a long-term romantic relationship and living together.

I am ruggedly handsome, WM, tall, athletic, 58 years, and feel young at heart and body. I am divorced with no children, enjoy a healthy lifestyle, and am in excellent shape.

What else? I have extensive counseling and life coaching experience, and am an expert in problem solving and conflict resolution. I am emotionally intelligent, perceptive, over-educated, under-stimulated, and willing to make time for the right female.

I travel a lot, especially to the Caribbean, Latin America and Europe, so maybe we are going to take the next trip together.

College students and girls with an international background or exotic looks (Latin, Caribbean, Mediterranean, Asian) are especially welcome. However, I am open to any race and background...what counts is your feminine charms in appearance and personality.

Send me a message with a picture or two (will get mine) and I will be in your life soon!

P.S. If you have a virtual affair, online chatting or endless texting in mind, I am not the right man. Your goal should be to exchange phone numbers and get together in person as soon as we feel comfortable with each other.
In order to eliminate spam messages I would request that you include the code word COMPASSION in the subject line of your first message.

hey whats up? Im 6'2 white 24 male with tattoos. Looking to meet up with some cool girls for drinks, movies, hanging out. I'm really open to anything, dates, friends, relationships. just see what happens Sorry guys not interested! email me I will respond.

looking 4 cool chick

KINKY BIG GIRL WANTED 4 FWB


I am 50, But look much younger and I am in good shape.
6'1" tall, 200 pounds, good looking, clean, great hygiene
and I don't smoke or do drugs and I am a nice respectable guy.

I would like to find a very pretty, chubby girl or a small BBW with a
large chest who would like to have a friend to call up and do things like
dinner,movies,walks, long talks and of course very hot,nasty kinky sex.

So if you have ever wanted a FWB type of relationship with a good
looking guy that is very oral, very kinky and is all about pleasing you first,
or you would like to explore you submissive side, I think we should talk.

If you don't smoke,you are fat and pretty, You are incredibly clean and
you are constantly horny, than I think you should tell me about yourself and send
me a pic or two and lets talk.....If you need to be very discreet, I am the right person
for you. I am single and can host in the mornings and early afternoons, You would
need to host in the evenings.

Hope to here from you.......

Hello ladies, thanks for at least looking. Are you as sick of this dating crap as I am? I mean really, it seems all they want out of you is free drinks, dinner or to just jump right in the sack with you. I'm looking to share my time, experiences, and maybe my life with someone who's on the same level as I am. Not looking for baggage or drama, just a nice, honest, caring, down the earth person who enjoys the simple things in life. Looking for a girl between thirtyeigth to fifty, 120 - 220 lbs, (maybe more, your all sexy!) own career, grown, almost grown kids, spontaneous, likes to laugh, adventurous, likes to travel, and, when the time is RIGHT, very sensuous and sexual. Is this REALLY too much to ask? About me; I love the out doors, anything from just going to the beach, or camping, dirt bike/quad riding, boating, a long drive up the coast, hang'n at Venice Beach, checking out museums, going to see a concert, also I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, playing pool, or just simply cooking a nice meal at home, snuggling up and watching a good movie. I'm employed, have been there for twenty-five years, no kids of my own, do have two seventeen year old twin step sons whom I love too death, (they don't live with me) honest, caring, polite, well mannered, have good morals / values, treat women with respect, (don't get me wrong, behind closed doors, I've got my "bad" side as well!!) and basically treat people the way I'd like to be treated. I'm 44, blond, blue, 5'6", 155 lbs, the "clean cut" look, 'stash, small G-tee, live and work in Ventura. A "G" rated picture of you would help, and I'll send you mine. Well, thanks for looking, hope to hear from you soon! Be safe, have fun! Oh, and by the way, to help avoid "spam", please put "VTA" in the subject line, Thanks!

I am a 40 year old white guy. 5'11'' tall with medium build. I have blond hair and blue eyes. I am attached but not getting my needs met in the bedroom.
I am looking for a friend with benefits for an ongoing love affair. Maybe you are married or attached and not getting your needs met. I am not looking for many women just looking for one for an ongoing affair. I am open to any race, age(over 18), and any body type. I am more into personality and chemistry than pure looks alone.

" I'm Kevin I'm 22 years old single & searching for a Cougar or a older women
that's single local in Newbury Park & Thousand Oaks , that's loves younger men "


I perfer to meet a older women or a Cougar between the ages of
35-45 year old, I want LTR Relationship " ?

"Leave me a message if your a older women or a Cougar
who interested "

Your Picture gets mine

Hi, I'm Alex and I am seeking a genuine, down-to-earth woman with a great sense of humor who enjoys intelligent conversations and who is looking for an emotional as well as intellectual and physical connection.

I am a 36 year old southern California native. Physically, I am 6'2", 195 lbs with brown hair and hazel green/brown eyes. Going to beaches, movies, nice restaurants, concerts, working out, weekend getaways and being active are loves of mine. I am even hoping to finally go skydiving and bunjee jumping for the first time this year, and I also would love to learn to dance.

Ethnically, I am some type of caucasian mix...I have no affinity for ball sports or politics; nor do I have a political opinion or view. I don't have a "team" that I route for by any stretch of the imagination....I do enjoy going to Lakers games live at the Staples center when I come across tickets though....I have been a competitive athlete and have done martial arts, gymnastics, acrobatics, swimming and diving. Also I used to be a surfer and a skateboarder. I do enjoy snowboarding, roller blading or biking at the beach, and recently discovered that I enjoy jogging too.

For work I sell ink & laser cartridges for printers, copiers and fax machines to companies with at least 100 employees. I enjoy what I do and financially I am very stable and secure. I live on the beach in Ventura and I work in Camarillo.

It would be great to meet a woman who is honest, silly, consistent, caring, and intellectually curious. If you are a strong-minded, independent, trustworthy and goal oriented woman; then I might be your guy.

It would be fantastic if you liked your job, had a place to live that you enjoyed, and had more interesting things to do than just going to a bar. I have been sober for 7 years and am a non smoker. I don't mind if you smoke or drink occasionally, not looking for anyone who has a drug or alcohol habit.

I am not looking for casual sex only or to jump into any type of committed relationship just yet. (However, I wouldn't be opposed to either one if the right person magically falls from the sky and read this ad) Lets get to know each other first and see how it goes.

Did I mention humor is a plus? :)

Please be over 18 and under 50. I can be reached by cell phone at area code three one zero, nine nine zero, two six seven two.

Thanks for reading and good luck in your search!

Alex

CAN WE SKIP THE "BEING VERIFIED" and "R U SAFE" BULLSHIT?" TO POST THIS AD, CL VERIFIES YOU NOW. THRU A PH. NO.# AND A CODE. IM JUST LOOKIN FOR A HANG-OUT BUDDY. EVENTUALLY WITH BENEFITS. YOU MUST LIKE TO GET NEKID, REGULARLY. YOU MUST BE SINGLE AND VERY GOOD LOOKING. SEND A COUPLE PICS, AND A NUMBER I CAN CONTACT YOU AT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED, AND ARE AS TIRED OF BEING ALONE AND WITHOUT, AS MUCH AS I AM. REMEMBER THIS--->>>NO PICS/PHONE NUMBER = NO REPLY FROM ME.

Someone that needs something good in her.Much fun to be had

Single mexican male born and raised in ventura looking for a woman to get to know. Give me a ring. Sergio ate ohh 5 six 5 nine too ate ohh one

IF YOUR REAL AND STRAIGHT FORWARD LIKE ME THAN SEND PICS AND LITTLE ABOUT UR SELF..I NOT GOING TO SIGN UP FOR ANY OTHER SITE JUST TALK TO SOMEONE..SORRY JUST WANT TO BE STRAIGHT UP AND WE CAN EXCHANGE NUMBERS TO TEXT OR TALK..SO IF U LIKE WHAT U SEE AND ARE INTERESTED FOR A NO BS THING GET BACK TO ME..

hey..weekend is going to b here...if you are also free as me, drop an email and we can plan for something...movie, drinks...

Hello, im a man looking for a friend and maybe a girlfriend. I am a latino stand at 5'7" and an in shape about five pounds over wieght at most. I have alomst black hair naturaly and dark brown eyes. I enjoy gaming, hiking, contact sports, sex, and partying!! Im looking for a girl that is fun and playful. I like longer hair on girls and like them to be atleast kinda active. I love to just hangout and chill with friends and am looking for some one who enjoys the same. If your still interested messege me.

I am fun ,daring , whitty and have no limits . I am looking for a girl who can be genuine and compassionate and loves attention
one who is not affraid to takes thigs fast , I dont play games iam to grown for that and I am more than you could you could ask for , no kids , no baggage ,my own place , and I am good looking with a nice body and well u can figure the rest out any way I am Chris

If you reply to this ill ask you to text me to prove your real so please dont waste my time
ill take a pic or 2 now

Please if your under a 7.5 dont even contact me