Ventura County Personals - Men Seeking Women (craigslist.org)

ALL CAPS, expressions like "love life" or "living life to the fullest", seeking soul mate, people demanding things like they are talking to you in there ad, no pic/no reply (yes we are all comfortable with sending pics to total strangers that could just be pic collectors for dating sites)

That's my list, I'll ad more later.

hello,hi to all positive,healthy beautiful warm hearted fun;creative women in ojai,ventura,minner's oaks,oxnard,and santa barbara,from dale.

I am seriously very lonely;in ventura and recently finished playing a nice gig at cafe fiore with local reggae band the legalizers and performing,playing at bombay bar and grill saturday nite.
dale is still looking for a positive healthy seeking a fun creative positive female lover best friend married or not in and around ojai,ventura,minner's oaks,oxnard,and santa barbara,
dale just turned 52,raised near east los angeles middle class a only child in pico rivera(near whitter)california from very elder parents (that were from the great depression.) born at camp pendleton,oceanside.
my father was born in 1900 and was in the navy ww 1+2.
freckled 5 feet 9 142 lbs,non smoker entire life. dale has never been to jail,and never has been married;no children(yet)
brown green hazel eyes;brown hair;virgo born august 26
always polite
mannered;gentleman
high school;college graduate
only child
blessed,lucky working the founders reggae music years
lived in luzern switzerland;was in a well known progressive rock swiss band.
lead-rhythm ful ltime professional guitarist
love live music
i have no living family so,musicians are my only family
very cultured
appreciate creativity and art
love life
never boring,lots of fun,sense of humor.
love make a woman laugh
healthy;do just about anything
hang out,eat at spencer's fish house,anacapa brewery,
love farmers markets in ojai,ventura and santa babarba.

specially live music at the most places including the watermark,winelovers,the deer lodge in ojai,ventura theater,soho in santa barbara and more...
love to:
always get,give affection
companionship,cudling
very positive progressive creative people and friends
spontaneity nature travel
gardening
ocean mountain
doing long walks,hiking
bicycling swimming

active,always positive
helping others,but put myself second.(a typical Virgo)
learning
totally friendly
riding my bike on highway101
warm hearted
blessings warm hearts + souls.a very positive creative productive summer.

dale

I'm easy on the eyes, fit, fun, sexual, oral for your pleasure. You will not be disappointed. Discrete is welcome. I prefer age 46-59 slender to medium built, I'm not looking for perfection....that is boring. Be clean, sexy in your own way you will enjoy my touch and cock. Serious only.

Looking for an exotic asian woman any age. Please send pics. No pic no reply. Will exchange if interested. Handsome CEO.

If ur real let's talk

I'm from Newbury Park California, I would like to meet a Cougar in her 40s
that's single loves younger gentlemen like me ?


please leave your message asap if your a cougar interested in meeting me

xoxo

Kevin

HEY IM A RELAXED AND BEAUTIFUL MAN SLIM MUSCULAR INTELLIGENT ARTISTIC HANDSOME AND TALENTED LOOKING 4 A YOUNGER GIRLFRIEND 18 TO 25 FOR BEST FRIENDS WITH TANTRIC BENIFITS YOU MUST BE CLEAN SLIM CHILL AND RELAXED .....NO DRAMA WANT A BEST FRIEND WHO WILL BE TRUE TO YOU AND YOU B HIS ONLY WOMANBE CUTE SEXY AND REAL WITH A PIC OR 2 420 FRIENDLY(GROWER)....BE GROUNDED WITH A GOOD HEART AND WANT THE REAL THING NOT JUST A FLING OPENMINDED NON SYCOPHANTIC MOSTLY SANEAND DID I MENTION CLEAN SLIM CHILLED AND REAL?

Mature Spanking Mentor, instills discipline thru Spanking sessions, instilling self improvement, and cleansing bad habits, delivering the discipline you deserve. A mental and physical experience, as well as bond of trust and respect for authority. Only serious replies, no experience needed, include a description of yourself and any questions you may have.

C

I am looking for a cool girl/partner in crime who likes beefy badboy white guys. Are you free tonight to blaze?

I have a nice big pad with pool and drinks/killer greenery and I can host for a blaze sesh today. NO DRAMA girls or endless emails.

Are you spontaneous and like a guy who will keep you amused? Send me some 411 and MUST HAVE CURRENT PIC

Put MONDAY in the title or subject line of your email so I know you are not spammer/bot

Happy smoking!!

ill keep it short and simple because im sure i will be flagged. im 24, 6ft tall. athletic build. lots of tattoos. very eclectic music taste. i love to be active by running, biking, hiking, surfing. i do enjoy bars and parties but im deff not the "party guy" anymore, even tho i know i look like one lol. i work and im always looking to better myself. im a very laid back guy and honest/open.

looking for: a woman 18 -30, in shape, active, any race. would love to find someone to go running/hiking with, and if u surf thats awesome because i could use some pointers. if your interested just message me please put your favorite color in the subject line or ill think youre spam. and i DEFF wont reply if u dont send a pic....thanks for looking

I?ll admit I?m skeptical about actually meeting someone via online dating that I?ll end up in a relationship with, but I?m open to taking the chance. In my free time I love trying new things, and experiencing all the possibilities life has to offer me. Going out to see live music (any genre, but mostly rock) or grab a drink with friends, hiking, cooking for friends, picnics, watching movies, traveling and reading are just some of the things I enjoy doing. I also love love love working out and playing basketball. I played basketball on a scholarship in college and even though I?ve been done playing for a few years now, I?ve never really stopped working out like an athlete. Friends say I?m genuine; the guy next door ? I?m always good for a laugh or a shoulder to lean on. I think I am open and honest, sweet, sarcastic, charismatic?but I?ll let you be the true judge of that.

I don?t like to hold grudges or have enemies. We all make mistakes in life, but I feel it?s important to have no regrets when we make them. Life is learning. I respect those who respect themselves, and offer the same respect to me. Liars are a pet peeve of mine. Life has taught me to whole-heartedly believe that anything is possible, as long as you have confidence in yourself and work hard for what you want. I?ve never fallen in love, but the hopeless romantic in me feels like I could at least meet someone to date and have fun with. If a relationship can build into something more, then I guess we would be one of the lucky ones. I?d like to meet someone who can make me laugh and who is just as genuine in their intentions as I am in mine; a girl who can keep up with me, but still challenge me at life. I have a great life - wonderful friends, I love my job and an amazing family, just hoping to meet someone that will compliment my life and I hers. I am rarely not laughing, I find life very funny! I am looking for a best friend....someone that I can have a blast with, support each other, and look forward to spending time with. My faith in God is really important to me. I love it when people are themselves and are confident to let it show. I spend my time working out, with friends, love summer sports...boating and with my family. You up for it?



Probably the most difficult is to write such self description as usually you don?t need to do it in your daily life and it seems very difficult to look at yourself by other people?s eyes.. I can say that I?m smart and well educated, romantic and kind person, with a good sense of humor, I love to spend time at home as well as out. I want to love and to be loved by real girl. I love life and all that this life gives to me! I love to travel, meetings with my friends, I also love to read interesting books and watch movies. I'm in need of some substance... something that gets my mind thinkin, heart pumpin, and face glowin:) I can honestly say I have no idea what kind of lady is right for me or what kind of girl I am right for, but I do have an appreciation for genuine people who say what they mean and mean what they say. I like woman who are secure with themselves and are able to learn from their mistakes, not continuously repeat them. I put the people I love first and I treat the ones I don't know with respect. I'm stubborn, never cruel, or on time, but I'm loyal, honest, and I have been through too much to not appreciate this life i'm living. I believe many things which are too good to exist in reality; I have many dreams which may not come true some day in my life. However, the thing I want the most is something simple, real and lasting. I am not exactly the same as what I look like or what people think, but few people can really see the inside of me. I know that I may be too normal to be the guy, but I havent given up looking for the one who can make me smile. I hate beautiful lies more than ugly truth. I am not able to be in and out easily but I am sadly controlled by feelings. I laugh a lot and live at the moment. I like music, movies, dogs, beach, ocean, and snow. I know exactly what I want and I go for it. But I am not stubbornly persisent, I know when and how to let things go. I can be sweet but I can also be upfront. I am childishly mature. I am negatively postive. I am twisty in a good way. I am open minded, love variety and having fun! Life is short and I believe every moment should be enjoyed as much as possible. People often think I look younger than I am. I happen to be attractive, intelligent, ambitious, and hard working. I believe in playing as hard as I work. After all, it's all about balance. I enjoy going out to restaurants, clubs, wine tasting, the opera, cafe's-(I love to read and have a great cup of coffee), museums, the symphony, parties, comedy clubs, camping, hiking and other leisure activities. I am also open to trying other/new activities, and I really do enjoy stimulating/intellectual conversations.

Working out is important to me because this helps me stay fit as well as manage stress. I usually work out at a gym, but lately I have gotten into Bikram yoga and meditating, so now I do it all.

Unfortunately, it's a challenge to meet people that have the complete package. Lately, on my end I've found that one side of the equation is usually missing. Either they're intelligent and have a great personality, but I'm not physically attracted to them. Or they are attractive, but I get turned off when they turn out to be liars, have no substance, are emotionally unavailable or don't get me. I think its important to have both sides of the equation. I'm sure I'm not the only one that's run into that obstacle! Regardless, I always have fun when I meet new people and enjoy every moment as much as I can even if I won't talk/or see them again.

Its too late for me to be a person everyone likes, I am who I am and I like it a lot.

im 33 white male 6'1 weigh about 165 shaved head and goattee. im looking for a woman who is interested in becoming friends maybe more if we click i like to cook laugh and obviously smoke weed lol lets talk you can email can send pics to cell phone

I am married and looking for a discrete mind blowing interlude on a regular basis. I am intelligent, active and fun to be with and with an abundance of passion for the right woman. Just interested in a connection with a passionate woman in a similar situation. We'll figure out the rest if we click. Email me if you are in a similar situation.

We should meet at a coffee shop and discuss the world around us.

Humor: Family Guy
Films: Drama or scifi
Food: Meat & Potatoes!
Fun: Anything but bars and clubs
Travel: US or Europe
Work: Art field, sorry not rich
Women: Low on drama, shy ones, geeks ;)

Looking for a chubby - bbw to go and light some herb and make out. Right now. Today. I'm chubby looking for the same.
Send me a pic lets do this.
xo.

Hello I'm looking for a older women or a Cougar between the ages of 38-42 years old that's single from Conejo valley,

I'm single & from Newbury Park California I would like a L.T.R. with a older women or a Cougar

I'm very lonely and I would like to share my life with

please leave your picture so I can see who you are ?

j.schitt21 on yahoo Yes my first name is Jack and yes my parents hated me! :) Now with that out the way hit me up on yahoo messenger! Lol!! Im into all kinds of music, activities, hobbies, and sports. Im outgoing, spontaneous, and hilarious!

I also fit this description, so since you are looking at this, we are in similar situations. Wouldn?t it be nice add some excitement to our routines without disrupting lives at home?

To briefly summarize my situation: I?m married and I'm not looking to change that; however, I?d like to develop a mutually rewarding relationship with a woman who is also married and sensitive to the challenges we would need to work around. I?m not looking for a quick fling or one night stand, but a longer term relationship where we understand our respective limitations and develop a respectful appreciation of each other that fulfills our common interests.

I?m tall, in my 40s, very attractive and in great shape. I have a stable career and a relationship that require discretion, so I?m ruling out all circles of business acquaintances and friends, and trying CL for alternatives.

If you?re interested, send me a reply with a brief description about yourself.

Are you out there?
I am a divorced good looking dad looking for that attractive and intelligent woman who is honest and caring. No games or drama. Do you exist? Tell me about you....
Your Photo gets mine in return. We can go from there.

one-in-a-million-girl

i wanna have breakfast with you. waffles with syrup and scrambled eggs and OJ at a local cafe. or on the road. or in my kitchen where we mess around and laugh and then jump on the bed to watch a movie. i want to kiss u while u tell me about some favorite movie of yours. i wanna order the movie if i don't have it and get all excited when it arrives in the mail. i wanna feel ur cute little feet under the sheet in the morning as they look for me because they're cold, and i tickle u for half a second...ur cute little squeals and then i wrap my arms around u until you're warm.

i wanna laugh with u. take the dog for walks. talk about nothing. talk about everything. talk philosophy. watch Andy SNL shorts. find something strange or beautiful together every time we're together: an object on the sidewalk, a mind-tripping thought, a sunset, the sound of your voice.

i wanna put a motorcycle helmet on ur little head and feel ur arms tightly wrapped around me as we ride down to the beach for lunch. or not, because you tell me motorcycles are too dangerous and win me over with your cute smile and worried face. i wanna sit by the ocean, order random appetizers and i watch your eyes dance because you're happy and ur little body's filled with passion...and sometimes u try to hold back a smile, but the cute corners of your mouth give it all away so way ahead of time. i want to hold your hand and lead you to our table.

i want to hold your hand for the first time and feel my heart catch on fire, or butterflies when my hand cups the small of you back for the first time and kiss u deeply. i wanna dive-bomb ur cheek with little surprise-attack kisses when ur not looking. i wanna lean in...breath softly and put my lips gently on your neck for the first time..

i wanna get drunk with you, and on you.

i want you to let me plan a trip and just go with it. on a boat, on a plane, in a car, in the rain. i want to get seats next to each other on a plane and be the annoying couple that won't stop playing...and sometimes want to be the mature couple who finds all kinds of deep meaning in silence or conversations. i want to help you get up on a surfboard behind the boat for the first time on a lake, or give u a yell of encouragement when you get up on the wakeboard. i wanna pull over on the side of the road, on one of our road trips, because you have to pee so bad and i can laugh at how cute you are while i watch for traffic. i wanna take you rock climbing and tell you how it doesn't matter how good you are...it's just an experience. i wanna hold you from behind on a trip to catalina and get drunk on the smell of your neck and the ocean air.

i want to take you to the shooting range and put those little earmuffs on to protect your hearing. i wanna see how cute and sexy you look wearing those eye protection glasses. i wanna tell you 'good job' even if you miss the target completely because it's so rad that you were willing to even try something scary and fun.

i want you to be there when my friends and i are playing games in the pool. i wanna cry 'marco' and try to find your 'polo' in the crowd. haha. i want to push you in the pool and have you pull me in with you. i want to KISS you in the pool...your hair wet, the sound of your laughter, my strength against your softness. i wanna watch tv in the jacuzzi with u, but ignore what's on.

i want the slowwwwest sex. the kind that takes hours. a candle, air conditioning and the kind of patience that hurts. so. good. i want to taste your kisses...explore the warmth of your neck with my lips...exchange kiss for kiss from top to bottom....and i want that hard sex that can't wait. bathroom counter sex, car sex, trail of clothes throw you on the bed i want you NOW sex.

i want to hold you. i want to hold you by the beach, in public on a bench, when you're sad or scared, and when you're laughing...or crying. especially if you're crying.


i wanna kiss you slowly in a grove of giant redwoods.

i want those knowing glances across the room in public. i want to meet a bunch of characters with you and laugh at life's variety.

i wanna dress up and hit a nice restaurant we've never been to, and some we have. i wanna drive through taco bell.

i wanna be cool with you. to experience intense passions and curiosities...but also be able to just....chill. to be.

i want those speechless moments. i wanna KNOW how short life is. i want u to remind me when i forget. i want to remind u. this moment is all we have.

i want u to feel safe with me.

i want to know u have my back, and i know that i have urs. i want you to be one of those few people i can be around and completely let my guard down sometimes...to be belly-up vulnerable with you, because i trust u.

i want u to trust me, when i make moves to care for you.

i wanna share back rubs, hugs and cuddles, and i want us to be cool with space when we need to breath. we're just so cool. we're not jealous. we're not paranoid. but if someone cracks now and then, it's okay and they get hugs and kisses for it. but then it's back to cool.

i want us to be strong enough in love to feel free being completely sappy and touchy feely in public...but i want it to rest on a foundation of monster strength. our love is anything but silly. anything but spineless.

i want those silly moments. i want those rainy days and those days when ur sick and i cancel everything i can to care for u. i want to sip on capri sun juicy drinks like we're five and walk through a long-forgotten ghost town, or along a white sands beach...or a star hike away from the city lights where we can see the milky way and feel how small we are...and how hugely lucky we are

i want u to love me like chocolate cake, rocky road ice-cream, white sand beaches, winning the lottery and the first rays of sunshine.

i want you to be as real as the rising sun, and meaningful as that achingly beautiful memory that haunts your dreams